Uvulopalatopharyngoplasty

Nearly three weeks ago Jeff had his tonsils out.  Well actually he had a Uvulopalatopharyngoplasty.  Don't even try to sound it out, its impossible, trust me.  In simple terms he had his tonsils out, his uvala shortened and his palate was given a facelift.  We knew it was going to be to rough and everyone we had talked to who had their tonsils out as an adult testified to how awful it was but I don't think we really believed them.  Let me just tell you, IT WAS AWFUL!  There are far worse illnesses and surgeries in the world but it is so strange that a surgery that is pretty easy on a five year old knocks grown men out for two weeks and takes many more for a full recovery.

Here are some things I learned (or was reminded of) over the last three weeks:

• We have awesome friends and neighbors, we are very lucky to be watched over and cared about.
• Our house if comfy and warm and I am very thankful for it, even if I did get a little stir crazy.
• I LOVE to read.  I had forgotten and it was awesome to read so many books the last three weeks.  My favorites were Nefertiti and Graceling.  Thanks Kathryn for the recommendations.
• Do not take crunchy foods for granted.  Jeff has been craving chips like crazy!
• Emergency rooms suck and I am really thankful that we have health insurance and can usually avoid them.
• Want to lose 20 pounds?  Have your tonsils out... unfortunately this side effect did not transfer over to me:)
• It was way too quiet in our house when Jeff couldn't talk, I will try not to take his voice for granted ever again. 
• I am so thankful for Priesthood Blessings and our awesome home teacher and ward family who take great care of us.
  
• No matter how old you are when you are sick mommies are the best.  I am so thankful both of our moms could come to visit.

The thing that hit me the hardest was how incredibly hard it is to watch someone you love so much be in pain and know there is nothing you can do to help.  This was the first major surgery that Jeff and I have dealt with together and while it was not easy I know it brought us closer together.  There is no one else that I could imagine spending all of eternity with and I am thankful the challenges that make us learn and grow together.  I hope that all the pain Jeff faced was worth it and he will be able to sleep and breathe better.  I love you babe!

What a stud!